A couple years ago, back in university, my lecturer said to the students, “People will judge, no matter what. Because that’s what they-and we-do.” His words hit me. I know I often find people who said “Don’t judge me, you don’t know me”, I’ve said it too, most people may have said it too. But, when I think about it, I realized that I judge too. I can’t avoid it. It’s natural. People will always judge.
It’s natural for people to judge. So long as we realized that there’s a chance that our judgment might be wrong and thus, should not treat people based on this uncertain judgment of ours. There might be gazillions of reason behind every single action that we do. We just got to keep doing what we believe is right and give no shit to what people think because even when we’re doing the right thing people will judge anyway, because that’s just what we do. We don’t have to explain ourselves, let’s our actions do that for us.
*Reproduced from my old blog’s entry